Queen, you may love an individual, but if that love is not reciprocated then it’s not going to work. If you find yourself putting out more than you are receiving then it’s a one way street and not two, and you will eventually get tired, get bored, frustrated, and lonely. You should never feel lonely or alone when you are in a relationship. Now, don’t get me wrong, I understand we have God, but I’m not talking about alone in that aspect. Please follow me while I try to explain myself. If you are trying to make this relationship work by yourself, do not take it further by getting married and by all means, do not bring a child into this world and introduce her or him to this lonely environment. While you long to for attention and affection, you tend to neglect the child trying to get it until you are exhausted, and that is not enough energy to give to that baby, and that’s not fair. If you have to do everything now to keep the relationship going, you will have to do everything then to keep it, and it’s not worth the time, and effort, because you can put that energy and time in developing yourself so you can attract the right man that wants the relationship to work just as much as you do.
top of page
bottom of page